{"id":4,"date":"2014-09-11T03:06:45","date_gmt":"2014-09-11T03:06:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/?page_id=4"},"modified":"2015-04-14T03:08:56","modified_gmt":"2015-04-14T03:08:56","slug":"codependency","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/?page_id=4","title":{"rendered":"Codependency"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"panel-grid\" id=\"pg-4-0\" ><div class=\"panel-grid-cell\" id=\"pgc-4-0-0\" ><div class=\"panel widget widget_text panel-first-child panel-last-child\" id=\"panel-4-0-0-0\">\t\t\t<div class=\"textwidget\"><!-- meta slider -->\n<div style=\"max-width: 400px;\" class=\"metaslider metaslider-flex metaslider-286 ml-slider nav-hidden\">\n    \n    <div id=\"metaslider_container_286\">\n        <div id=\"metaslider_286\">\n            <ul class=\"slides\">\n                <li style=\"display: block; width: 100%;\"><img src=\"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/co2.jpg\" height=\"600\" width=\"400\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-286 slide-330\" \/><\/li>\n                <li style=\"display: none; width: 100%;\"><img src=\"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/co1.jpg\" height=\"600\" width=\"400\" alt=\"\" class=\"slider-286 slide-329\" \/><\/li>\n            <\/ul>\n        <\/div>\n        \n    <\/div>\n    <script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n        var metaslider_286 = function($) {\n            $('#metaslider_286').addClass('flexslider'); \/\/ theme\/plugin conflict avoidance\n            $('#metaslider_286').flexslider({ \n                slideshowSpeed:7000,\n                animation:\"fade\",\n                controlNav:false,\n                directionNav:true,\n                pauseOnHover:true,\n                direction:\"horizontal\",\n                reverse:false,\n                animationSpeed:600,\n                prevText:\"&lt;\",\n                nextText:\"&gt;\",\n                slideshow:true\n            });\n        };\n        var timer_metaslider_286 = function() {\n            var slider = !window.jQuery ? window.setTimeout(timer_metaslider_286, 100) : !jQuery.isReady ? window.setTimeout(timer_metaslider_286, 1) : metaslider_286(window.jQuery);\n        };\n        timer_metaslider_286();\n    <\/script>\n<\/div>\n<!--\/\/ meta slider--><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div><div class=\"panel-grid-cell\" id=\"pgc-4-0-1\" ><div class=\"panel widget widget_text panel-first-child panel-last-child\" id=\"panel-4-0-1-0\">\t\t\t<div class=\"textwidget\"><h3>What is Codependency?<\/h3>\n<p>Codependency is a pervasive pattern of behavior and belief characterized by an <strong>extreme focus on the behavior of another to the neglect and detriment of the self.<\/strong> \u00a0The characteristics of codependency include excessive:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Focus on the behavior of the other, usually a spouse, child or other close family member;<\/li>\n<li>Effort to influence and alter the behavior of others;<\/li>\n<li>Worry about the wellbeing of others;<\/li>\n<li>Concern with what others think or will think \u201cabout me\u201d;<\/li>\n<li>Susceptibility to anxiety and instability;<\/li>\n<li>Neglect of self-care and personal development;<\/li>\n<li>Resentment and depression when one\u2019s efforts to \u201chelp\u201d the other are unsuccessful or are met with\u00a0a lack of appreciation or outright rejection; and<\/li>\n<li>Difficulty identifying one\u2019s own wants and needs and setting goals for the self.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>Recovery from Codependency<\/h3>\n<p>When you are caught up in codependency, you may find yourself thinking phrases like, \u201cI can\u2019t live my life until he changes\u201d or \u201cI will be happy when he is happy\u201d. <strong>Your sense of wellbeing depends on the wellbeing of another, and therefore is never secure because it is based on things outside of your control.<\/strong> \u00a0Recovery from codependency seeks to bring the focus of your attention back to that person over whom you actually can exercise a significant level of influence \u2013 yourself \u2013 over what you choose to think, what you choose to believe, what you choose to do.<strong> Recovery begins with understanding codependency<\/strong> and examining the positive and the negative impact it has had on your life, developing a worldview which is non-codependent, and taking actions consistent with that new and healthy perspective.<\/p>\n<p>You can read more about codependency <a title=\"Codependency Defined\" href=\"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/?page_id=18\">HERE<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/?page_id=28\">Contact Bill Lent<\/a><\/p>\n<p>(646) 322-1582<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is Codependency? Codependency is a pervasive pattern of behavior and belief characterized by an extreme focus on the behavior of another to the neglect and detriment of the self. \u00a0The characteristics of codependency include excessive: Focus on the behavior of the other, usually a spouse, child or other close family member; Effort to influence [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":53,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"templates\/template-full.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":312,"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/4\/revisions\/312"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/53"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/williamtlent.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}